So what I keep in mind is: Which of my student's have I just received into my program that is way behind on skills? :Which of my students need to stay do to regression? So high or low functioning is not what I use to consister for ESY. I have recently received 3 new students that have never been in a school setting with limited resources so I already know I will have these 3 kiddos. That only leaves 5 more slots, so I look over my students that have not quite yet met some of the IEP goals, those that are still struggling with a skill, and those I know who have to remain on a strict schedule to make it through a day.
But as for a parent Spring Break should be a time where you go over the IEP and Progress reports. Start writing down questions and goals that you feel should be address with your child's teacher and therapist. I love when my parents come in with a notebook and has outside information that they have read and wants me to consister. Because they might have gotten new information from outside therapy session that we need to incorporate into the child's IEP. Private Therapist seem to get more training than Public School Teachers, and Therapist ( more available funds). So bring in that information. You don't always have to have the IEP all done in one day either. I love it when mine are but it is not set in stone. I have no problem going back to my computer and write in goals that a parent or outside therapist as suggested. The information is to get a good IEP that all related service providers are all working to benefit the child.
If you think you might have problems with the child's teacher about goals or opinions you have for your child's IEP, you can call and have the Special Education director, or Autism Coordinator (which ever title you school district has) to set in on your meeting. But I would tell you to call several days in advance. I have had parent's call me and ask me to set it up for my Special Education Director to attend and I usually have to do it at least a week or two prior to the meeting. So just remember when you get your notification letter look and see what people have been invited to attend.. If a person that you need to speak with isn't list; call and schedule those people to attend the IEP meeting. You can call the teacher or which ever means of communication that you have with the teacher, but I would tell you not to do it the day of the meeting because it probably won't happen due to scheduling. So get prepared as soon as the Notification of IEP meeting arrives.
So have a "Great Spring Break". Hope this information is helpful. If I can help you in anyway just leave a Post.